<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12770644</id><updated>2010-08-29T00:53:10.773+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Benn's Blog</title><subtitle type='html'>Welcome to Benn's Blog. 

Why "Benn's Blog"?  Could I say that this Blog is here to exercise our "Gifts" and "exploit" the technology toward bringing honour to our CREATOR and lasting benefit to you and me. Happy Blogging! 

- Benn [ben@bennsblog.org]</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25'/><author><name>Benn [the-Saved-by] Grace</name><email>ben@bennsblog.org</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>43</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12770644.post-4288130929779163701</id><published>2010-01-04T00:29:00.001+05:30</published><updated>2010-01-04T00:29:32.297+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Truths to Live By - One Day at a Time</title><content type='html'>William MacDonald&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment.” (John 7:24)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One of the most deep-seated frailties of fallen humanity is the persistent tendency to judge according to appearance. We judge a person according to his looks. We judge a used car by its body. We judge a book by its cover. No matter how often we are disappointed and disillusioned, we stubbornly refuse to learn that “all is not gold that glitters.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In his book Hide or Seek, Dr. James Dobson says that physical beauty is the most highly valued personal attribute in our culture. We have made it what he calls “the gold coin of human worth.” Thus a beautiful child is more favored by adults than a plain one. Teachers tend to give better grades to attractive children. Pretty children get less discipline than others. Homely children are more subject to blame for misdemeanors.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Samuel would have chosen the tall, good-looking Eliab to be king (1 Sam. 16:7), but the Lord corrected him, “Look not on his countenance or on the height of his stature; because I have refused him: for the Lord seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh on the heart.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The greatest case of misjudgment in history occurred when the Lord Jesus visited our planet. Apparently He was not prepossessing as far as physical appearance was concerned. He had no form or comeliness, and when men saw Him, no beauty that they should desire Him (Isa. 53:2). They could see no beauty in the only truly beautiful Person who ever lived!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yet He Himself never fell into this terrible trap of judging according to looks, for before His advent, it was prophesied of Him, “He shall not judge after the sight of His eyes, neither reprove after the hearing of His ears” (Isa. 11:3). To Him it was not the face but the character that counted. Not the cover but the contents. Not the physical but the spiritual.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/12770644-4288130929779163701?l=www.bennsblog.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/feeds/4288130929779163701/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=12770644&amp;postID=4288130929779163701' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/4288130929779163701'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/4288130929779163701'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/2010/01/truths-to-live-by-one-day-at-time.html' title='Truths to Live By - One Day at a Time'/><author><name>Benn [the-Saved-by] Grace</name><email>ben@bennsblog.org</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15194148734585317902'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12770644.post-6235431433997805793</id><published>2009-10-27T14:53:00.001+05:30</published><updated>2009-10-27T14:55:00.882+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Going Without Jesus</title><content type='html'>&lt;b&gt;"...they were unaware of it." Luke 2:43 &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Mary and Joseph traveled to Jerusalem for the Feast of the Passover. Jesus was 12 years old. They were evidently very distracted by the excitement and business of the Feast. In fact, Mary and Joseph began their return trip to Nazareth only to realize well into the trip that Jesus was not with them. It would be three days before they would be reunited with their 12-year-old son. It caused quite a scare in Mary and Joseph, and they reprimanded Jesus for "wandering" off. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As a parent, I find this story truly amazing. How can parents of the Son of God not know their son is not in their presence? Yet this story illustrates how each of us can become so busy that we continue to operate not realizing that Jesus is no longer with us. Obviously, there was very little fellowship taking place between Jesus and His parents during the trip. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Are you experiencing daily, even moment-by-moment, fellowship with Jesus? If not, you will wake up one day and realize Jesus is not with you in your endeavors. It may, like Mary and Joseph, create a certain fear in you that you may have lost a very important relationship. Doing business without Jesus' presence leaves us powerless and prone to live in fear. Jesus said He would never leave or forsake His children. However, we can walk away from His fellowship by refusing to be with Him. Do not let this happen to you. He longs to have daily fellowship with you because He loves you.&lt;br /&gt;---&lt;br /&gt;[Courtesy: Os Hillman]&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/12770644-6235431433997805793?l=www.bennsblog.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/feeds/6235431433997805793/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=12770644&amp;postID=6235431433997805793' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/6235431433997805793'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/6235431433997805793'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/2009/10/going-without-jesus.html' title='Going Without Jesus'/><author><name>Benn [the-Saved-by] Grace</name><email>ben@bennsblog.org</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15194148734585317902'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12770644.post-697031123201623514</id><published>2009-10-15T12:37:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2009-10-15T12:37:17.249+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Material abundance vs. Gospel of the Kingdom of God</title><content type='html'>"We went through fire and water, but you brought us to a place of abundance." Psalm 66:12b&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;It is nice to hear that God desires to bring us into abundance. In fact, many a preacher has promoted the goodness of the Lord and His ability to prosper His children. Alas, my experience is that this gospel of material abundance has little to do with the gospel of the Kingdom as our Lord works in the realm of the sanctified soul. The passage above tells us that God does in fact bring us into places of abundance. However, upon further study of the entire passage, we learn the route to this abundance. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For you, O God, tested us; You refined us like silver. You brought us into prison and laid burdens on our backs. You let men ride over our heads; we went through fire and water, but You brought us to a place of abundance (Psalm 66:10-12). God's economy of abundance often has little to do with material blessing. In God's economy, abundance is often measured in wisdom and knowledge of Himself. It is then that we are truly blessed. Wisdom cannot be gained through intellectual pursuits. Wisdom comes only through experience. Real wisdom comes from the kinds of experiences that come only through the deepest tests. Lessons of refinement, including prison accompanied by burdens, lead us through the fire and water. This is the territory that must be traveled to reach that place of abundance. It would seem strange that a loving God would use such means with His children. What we often fail to realize is that God's measuring stick is the character and likeness of Jesus Christ Himself in each of us. This cannot be gained through a life of ease and pleasure. Ease and pleasure fail to refine. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Is God using your workplace to refine you today? Has He placed you in a prison or laid burdens on your back? Take heart if this is the place you find yourself, and realize that if you are faithful through the tests, you will enter a place of abundance that few will ever attain. The darkest hour is just before daybreak. &lt;br /&gt;---&lt;br /&gt;[Courtesy: TGIF]&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/12770644-697031123201623514?l=www.bennsblog.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/feeds/697031123201623514/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=12770644&amp;postID=697031123201623514' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/697031123201623514'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/697031123201623514'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/2009/10/material-abundance-vs-gospel-of-kingdom.html' title='Material abundance vs. Gospel of the Kingdom of God'/><author><name>Benn [the-Saved-by] Grace</name><email>ben@bennsblog.org</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15194148734585317902'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12770644.post-5269910036531696906</id><published>2009-10-06T22:32:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2009-10-06T22:32:14.324+05:30</updated><title type='text'>The story written by a doctor...</title><content type='html'>Jiju (George Mathew) forwarded me the following mail which I thought would like to share with you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;"Isaiah  65:24 &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;This story was written by a doctor who worked in  South Africa ... &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One night I  had worked hard to help a mother in the labor ward; but in spite of all  we could do, she died leaving us with a tiny premature baby and a  crying two-year-old daughter.  We would have difficulty keeping  the baby alive, as we had no incubator (we had no electricity to run an  incubator).  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We also had no special feeding facilities. Although  we lived on the equator, nights were often chilly with treacherous  drafts.  One student midwife went for the box we had for such  babies and the cotton wool that the baby would be wrapped in. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Another went to stoke up the fire and fill a hot water bottle.   She came back shortly in distress to tell me that in filling the  bottle, it had burst (rubber perishes easily in tropical climates).  "And it is our last hot water bottle!" she exclaimed.  As in  the West, it is no good crying over spilled milk so in Central Africa it might be considered no good  crying &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;over burst water bottles.  They do not grow on  trees, and there are no drugstores down forest pathways.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"All  right," I said, "put the baby as near the fire as you safely can, and  sleep between the baby and the door to keep it free from drafts.   Your job is to keep the baby warm."  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The following noon,  as I did most days, I went to have prayers with any of the orphanage  children who chose to gather with me.  I gave the youngsters  various suggestions of things to pray about and told them about the  tiny baby.  I explained our problem about &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;keeping the baby warm  enough, mentioning the hot water bottle, and that the baby could so  easily die if it got chills.  I also told them of the  two-year-old sister, crying because her mother had died.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;During  prayer time, one ten-year old girl, Ruth, prayed with the usual blunt  conciseness of our African children.  "Please, God" she prayed,  "send us a water bottle.  It'll be no good tomorrow, God, as the  baby will be dead, so please send it this afternoon." &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;While I  gasped inwardly at the audacity of the prayer, she added, "And while  You are about it, would You please send a dolly for the little girl so  she'll know You really love her?" &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As often with children's  prayers, I was put on the spot.  Could I honestly say, "Amen".   I just did not believe that God could do this.  Oh, yes, I  know that He can do everything, the Bible says so.  But  there are limits, aren't there?  The only way God could answer  this particular prayer would be by sending me a parcel from homeland.   I had been in Africa for almost  four years at that time, and I had never, ever received a parcel from  home.  Anyway, if anyone did send me a parcel, who would put in a  hot water bottle?  I lived on the equator!  Halfway  through the afternoon, while I was teaching in the nurses' training  school, a message was sent that there was a car at my front door.    &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By the time I reached home, the car had gone, but there, on the  veranda, was a large twenty-two pound parcel.  I felt tears  pricking my eyes.  I could not open the parcel alone, so I sent  for the orphanage children.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Together we pulled off the string,  carefully undoing each knot.  We folded the paper, taking care not  to tear it unduly.  Excitement was mounting.   &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Some thirty or forty pairs of eyes were focused on  the large cardboard box.  From the top, I lifted out brightly  colored, knitted jerseys.  Eyes sparkled as I gave them out.   Then there were the knitted bandages for the leprosy patients,  and the children looked a little bored.  Then came a box of  mixed raisins and sultanas - that would make a batch of buns for the  weekend.  Then, as I put my hand in again, I felt the ... could it  really be?  I grasped it and pulled it out - yes, a brand-new,  rubber hot water bottle.  I cried.  I had not asked God to  send it; I had not truly believed that He could  Ruth was in  the front row of the children.  She rushed forward, crying out,  "If God has sent the bottle, He must have sent the dolly too!"   &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Rummaging down to the bottom of the box, she  pulled out the small, beautifully dressed dolly.  Her  eyes shone!  She had never doubted!  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Looking up at me, she  asked: "Can I go over with you and give this dolly to that little girl,  so she'll know that Jesus really loves her?" &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That parcel had  been on the way for five whole months.  Packed up by my  former Sunday school class, whose leader had heard and obeyed God's  prompting to send a hot water bottle, even to the equator.  And  one of the girls had put in a dolly for an African child - five  months before, in answer to the believing prayer of a ten-year-old to  bring it "that afternoon."  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Before they call, I will answer"  (Isaiah 65:24).   This awesome prayer takes less than a minute.   When you receive this, say the prayer, that's all you have to  do.  No strings attached.  Just send it on to whomever you  want - but do send it on.  Prayer is one of the best free gifts we  receive.  There is no cost but a lot of rewards.    &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let's continue praying for  one another: Father, I ask you to bless my friends  reading this right now.  I am asking You to minister to  their spirit at this very moment.  Where there  is pain, give them Your peace and mercy.  Where  there is self doubting, release a renewed confidence to work  through them.  Where there is tiredness or  exhaustion, I ask You to give them understanding, guidance,  and strength as they learn submission to Your  leading.  Where there is  spiritual &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;stagnation, I ask You to renew them by  revealing Your nearness, and by drawing them into greater  intimacy with You.  Where there is fear, reveal  Your love, and release to them Your courage.  Where  there is a sin blocking them, reveal it, and break its hold  over my friend's life.     &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Bless their finances, give  them greater vision, and raise up leaders and  friends to support and encourage them.  Give each of  them discernment to recognize the evil forces around them,  and reveal to them the power they have in You to defeat  it.  I ask you to do these things in Jesus' name.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/12770644-5269910036531696906?l=www.bennsblog.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/feeds/5269910036531696906/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=12770644&amp;postID=5269910036531696906' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/5269910036531696906'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/5269910036531696906'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/2009/10/story-written-by-doctor.html' title='The story written by a doctor...'/><author><name>Benn [the-Saved-by] Grace</name><email>ben@bennsblog.org</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15194148734585317902'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12770644.post-5764237612613122070</id><published>2009-09-25T15:58:00.002+05:30</published><updated>2009-09-25T16:05:46.481+05:30</updated><title type='text'>My "outward man" and "inward man"</title><content type='html'>&lt;strong&gt;"Though our outward man perish, yet the inward man is renewed day by day." 2 Corinthians 4:16) &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The old house is breaking down; with some of us the roof is thatched now with white hair, and we are reminded that day by day we shall soon move out unless Christ Himself returns.   But we are not disheartened, we are not discouraged, for "though our outward man perish, yet the inward man is renewed day by day."  My hope is brighter now than it ever was; my joy in Christ is greater than it has ever been; the world means less to me today than it has ever meant, and the applause of men means less.  But the approval of the Lord means more than it has ever meant.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/12770644-5764237612613122070?l=www.bennsblog.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/feeds/5764237612613122070/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=12770644&amp;postID=5764237612613122070' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/5764237612613122070'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/5764237612613122070'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/2009/09/my-outward-man-and-inward-man.html' title='My &quot;outward man&quot; and &quot;inward man&quot;'/><author><name>Benn [the-Saved-by] Grace</name><email>ben@bennsblog.org</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15194148734585317902'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12770644.post-450396379023681192</id><published>2009-08-30T10:26:00.001+05:30</published><updated>2009-08-30T10:29:31.773+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Doctrine and Living</title><content type='html'>As Christians, it is very important for us to take heed that both Doctrine and Living should go side by side.  We cannot separate one from the other.  See what William Macdonald has to say on this: &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"I often think of this when I read books on systematic theology. In these books the authors seek to gather together all that the Bible teaches on the doctrines of the faith, whether of God, Christ, the Holy Spirit, angels, man, sin, redemption, etc. While this has definite value, it can be very cold when isolated from godly living. A person can be intellectually proficient in the great doctrines and yet be sadly deficient as to his Christian character. If we study the Bible as God has given it to us, we never get a dichotomy between doctrine and duty. The two are always beautifully balanced and woven together."&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/12770644-450396379023681192?l=www.bennsblog.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/feeds/450396379023681192/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=12770644&amp;postID=450396379023681192' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/450396379023681192'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/450396379023681192'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/2009/08/doctrine-and-living.html' title='Doctrine and Living'/><author><name>Benn [the-Saved-by] Grace</name><email>ben@bennsblog.org</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15194148734585317902'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12770644.post-3305389271066957099</id><published>2009-08-11T03:24:00.002+05:30</published><updated>2009-08-11T03:29:06.791+05:30</updated><title type='text'>What Suffering Means</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;l&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Do not be ashamed to testify about our Lord or ashamed of me his prisoner... That is why I am suffering as I am. Yet I am not ashamed." 2 Timothy 1:8,12(NIV)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why does Paul tell Timothy not to be ashamed? Why would suffering make Paul ashamed? We have a hard time separating suffering and shame.  Suffering raises two questions that lead to shame if we don't know how to answer them. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Does suffering mean God has failed?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Paul spends his life serving the Lord and ends up chained in a prison in Rome. Imagine Timothy trying to share the gospel with an unbeliever in Ephesus. "How can you believe in a God of love who allows his own apostle to languish in jail?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The world's view is that if God is loving and He is powerful, then He must be able and willing to deliver us from all suffering. So, why is Paul in prison? "My tears have been my food day and night,while men say to me all day long, 'Where is your God?'"(Psalm 42:3)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The first instinct of the unbeliever looking at suffering is to conclude that God has failed. You can see why Timothy might have been ashamed. Evangelism would be easier if God didn't let all these disasters happen.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Does suffering mean that we have failed?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The believer has a different question. In the story of Job, when Job suffered greatly, his friends came to comfort him. The friends were believers. They were quite sure that God had not failed, and so in their minds that only left one alternative and that was that Job had failed. There must be some sin for which Job was being disciplined.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We find the same assumption about suffering in the Gospels:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"As he went along, he [Jesus] saw a man blind from birth.His disciples asked him [notice this is a question coming from the believers],'Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents that he was born blind?'"John 9:1-2 (NIV)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Jesus' disciples hold a deep conviction that all suffering is a direct consequence of sin. If this man had become blind at age 20, instead of at birth, they would assume it was the result of some sin in his life. Now they are wondering, "Where is the sin?" Was it a past sin of the parents that brought this consequence on him? Or was it the man's own future that God already knew about before the man was born? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We are deeply convinced that suffering and shame belong together. That's why among Christians our deepest question is often, "Does this mean that God is judging me for something I have done?" Pain is a platformWhen suffering comes, the first instinct of the unbeliever is to think that God has failed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The first instinct of the believer is to think that we have failed. Either way the assumption is that suffering and shame belong together: "'Neither this man nor his parents sinned,' said Jesus. 'But this happened so that the work of God might be displayed in his life.'"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;John 9:3 (NIV) This is the biblical view of suffering. Far from being evidence of shame, the pain in this man's life is a platform on which God's glory will be revealed. When you experience pain, it's good to pray that God's work will be displayed in your life.  &lt;br /&gt;---&lt;br /&gt;[Courtesy: Colin Smith]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;l&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/12770644-3305389271066957099?l=www.bennsblog.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/feeds/3305389271066957099/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=12770644&amp;postID=3305389271066957099' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/3305389271066957099'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/3305389271066957099'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/2009/08/what-suffering-means.html' title='What Suffering Means'/><author><name>Benn [the-Saved-by] Grace</name><email>ben@bennsblog.org</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15194148734585317902'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12770644.post-4073400739190116546</id><published>2009-08-07T02:07:00.001+05:30</published><updated>2009-08-07T02:11:09.443+05:30</updated><title type='text'>"Never mind.  The Lord got a dozen oysters tonight."</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;l&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;"That the excellency of the power may  be of God and not of us." (2 Corinthians 4:1-7)&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the days of John Wesley, lay preachers with limited education would sometimes conduct the church services.  One man used Luke 19:21 as his text: "Lord, I feared Thee, because Thou art an austere man."  Not knowing the word austere, he thought the text spoke of "an oyster man."&lt;br /&gt;He explained how a diver must grope in dark, freezing water to retrieve oysters.  In his attempt, he cuts his hands on the sharp edges of the shells.  After he obtains an oyster, he rises to the surface, clutching it "in his torn and bleeding hands."  The preacher added, "Christ descended from the glory of heaven into . . .  sinful human society, in order to retrieve humans and bring them back up with Him to the glory of heaven.  His torn and bleeding hands are a sign of the value He has placed on the object of His quest."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Afterward, 12 men received Christ.  Later that night someone came to Wesley to complain about  unschooled preachers who were too ignorant even to know the meaning of the texts they were preaching on.  The Oxford-educated Wesley simply said, "Never mind.  The Lord got a dozen oysters tonight."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Our best may not always measure up to the standards of others.  But God takes our inadequacies and humble efforts and uses them for His glory.  (CINDY HESS KASPER)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Master can use what you have to offer,&lt;br /&gt;Though you may consider it small;&lt;br /&gt;His work here on earth is done through His children,&lt;br /&gt;So give Him your best, give your all.&lt;br /&gt;(HESS)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Do what you can where you are with what you have.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;l&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/12770644-4073400739190116546?l=www.bennsblog.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/feeds/4073400739190116546/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=12770644&amp;postID=4073400739190116546' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/4073400739190116546'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/4073400739190116546'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/2009/08/never-mind-lord-got-dozen-oysters.html' title='&quot;Never mind.  The Lord got a dozen oysters tonight.&quot;'/><author><name>Benn [the-Saved-by] Grace</name><email>ben@bennsblog.org</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15194148734585317902'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12770644.post-7608010410037087213</id><published>2009-07-29T01:54:00.004+05:30</published><updated>2009-07-29T02:17:09.773+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Homosexuality</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;l &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Religious leaders disapprove of the Delhi High Court judgement on homosexuality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;New Delhi:&lt;/strong&gt; Certain religious leaders strongly disapproved of the Delhi High Court judgement which legalised gay sex among consenting adults.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"This is absolutely wrong to legalise homosexuality. We will not accept any such law," Jama Masjid Imam Ahmed Bukhari said.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He also critcised the government for trying to amend the Indian Penal Code to scrap section 377 that criminalises homosexuality.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"If the government makes such attempt to scrap the Section 377, we will oppose it strongly," Bukhari said.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;All India Muslim Personal Law Board member Maulana Khalid Rashid Firangi Mahli said homosexuality is not allowed by any religion.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"It is against all religions. It is against the culture of Indian society. We feel there is no need to legalise homosexuality. This practice is unnatural. It should continue as a criminal act," he said.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Father Dominic Immanuel said that churches have no objection to decriminalisation of homosexuality but it should not be legalised.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"We have no objection to decriminalisation of homosexuality because we do not consider these people as criminals on par with other criminals," Immanuel said.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However, churches do not approve of homosexual relations as ethical and moral right of the people, he said.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"It is against nature.Our position is that homosexuality should not be legalised," he said, adding that such practices will increase paedophilia and HIV/AIDS.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The court said Section 377 of the IPC as far as it criminalises gay sex among consenting adults is violation of fundamental rights.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;But what the Bible Says About... Homosexuality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Homosexuality continues to make headlines on a daily basis. There is a major movement today to promote homosexuality as a valid lifestyle choice, and it has even become a “hot potato” subject in politics and in schools today. It is likely that you probably know at least one person that struggles with homosexuality, and as a Christian you need to know what the Bible says about the lifestyle choice.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There is no simple answer to this, because not all Christian denominations agree. There are several verses throughout the Bible that have been interpreted to mean that homosexuality is a sin. Still many verses have been interpreted to describe behavior at pagan temples. Thus, much of what you think of homosexuality is how you interpret scripture.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Leviticus 18:22&lt;/strong&gt; – “Do not lie with a man as one lies with a woman; that is detestable.” (NIV)&lt;br /&gt;1 Corinthians 6:9-10 – “Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.” (NIV)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Is it a “Choice?”&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gay rights activists have spent many years trying to tell people that homosexuals are born that way. The three main studies that activists use to claim the biological nature of homosexuality have serious methodological flaws, but the media has latched onto the simplified results.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If people were born to be homosexual would God have considered it a sin? In Leviticus, many interpret the scripture to mean God called for homosexuals to be killed for their sins. A loving God would not create homosexuals only to have them killed for a behavior He created. In Genesis, Eve was created to be a companion for Adam and many interpret from those verses that marriage is a union between a man and a woman.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Genesis 2:24&lt;/strong&gt; – “For this reason a man will leave his father and other and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.” (NIV)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Leviticus 20:13&lt;/strong&gt; – “If a man lies with a man as one lies with a woman, both of them have done what is detestable. They must be put to death; their blood will be on their own heads.” (NIV)&lt;br /&gt;Still, even if someone believes homosexuality is something a person is born with, most Christians adhere to the concept that pre-marital sex is a sin. Simply, whether it is a homosexual or heterosexual relationship, the ideal is that Christian teens should be waiting until marriage to have sex.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Romans 1:24-25&lt;/strong&gt; – “Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another. They exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator – who is forever praised. Amen.” (NIV)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;What About My Homosexual Friends?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Many homosexuals are angry or fearful of Christians, because they have been persecuted over the years, and that is a valid concern. Even if you believe that your homosexual friends have sinned, it does not mean you should suddenly give up on them. There is a common saying in the church of “Love the sinner, hate the sin.” We are all sinners in one way or another.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are also those that believe homosexuals, even those that struggle with their sexual orientation, can be forgiven. The only unforgivable sin, according to the Bible, is to not believe in Jesus as God’s one and only son (John 3:18). Therefore, your homosexual friends can use your guidance and love rather than your judgement&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However, it is important for you to understand that the answer to homosexuality is not to convert your friend to heterosexuality, but to guide your friends toward God. Many people think that dating or marriage is the answer to all the homosexual’s problems, but the opposite of homosexuality is not heterosexuality, it is holiness. It is not about creating an attraction to members of the opposite sex, but forming a relationship with God. He will take care of the rest. Plus, there are churches out there that will welcome your friend with open arms. It's about showing God's love.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If your friend does not necessarily turn to God right away, be patient and be an example of Christ. Remember that you are there to plant the seeds. It is God who will make those seeds grow.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;John 3:18&lt;/strong&gt; – “Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe stands condemned already because he has not believed in the name of God’s one and only son.” (NIV)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;1 Corinthians 3:6&lt;/strong&gt; – “I planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God made it grow.” (NIV)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;1 Corinthians 10:13&lt;/strong&gt; – “No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And god is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it.” (NIV)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;l&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/12770644-7608010410037087213?l=www.bennsblog.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/feeds/7608010410037087213/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=12770644&amp;postID=7608010410037087213' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/7608010410037087213'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/7608010410037087213'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/2009/07/homosexuality.html' title='Homosexuality'/><author><name>Benn [the-Saved-by] Grace</name><email>ben@bennsblog.org</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15194148734585317902'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12770644.post-7503991533033796546</id><published>2009-07-26T01:12:00.005+05:30</published><updated>2009-07-26T01:36:01.109+05:30</updated><title type='text'>"All famous men in one map"</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_92Ugj3oYDNo/SmtlVbicGuI/AAAAAAAAAJM/uqliAFd-Bo4/s1600-h/All+Famous+men+in+one+photograph.bmp"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5362491200158571234" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 138px" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_92Ugj3oYDNo/SmtlVbicGuI/AAAAAAAAAJM/uqliAFd-Bo4/s320/All+Famous+men+in+one+photograph.bmp" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;l &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Johnson has sent me an interesting photograph "All famous men in one map". I was able to identify many (Mahatma Gandhi, Abraham Lincoln, George Bush, Albert Einstein, Putin, Josef Stalin, Mao, Yasser Arafat, Lenin, etc.). How many you are able to do? Please try.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Love - Ben&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;l&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/12770644-7503991533033796546?l=www.bennsblog.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/feeds/7503991533033796546/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=12770644&amp;postID=7503991533033796546' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/7503991533033796546'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/7503991533033796546'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/2009/07/all-famous-men-in-one-map.html' title='&quot;All famous men in one map&quot;'/><author><name>Benn [the-Saved-by] Grace</name><email>ben@bennsblog.org</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15194148734585317902'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_92Ugj3oYDNo/SmtlVbicGuI/AAAAAAAAAJM/uqliAFd-Bo4/s72-c/All+Famous+men+in+one+photograph.bmp' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12770644.post-5463153800585242747</id><published>2009-07-26T01:01:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2009-07-26T01:11:09.589+05:30</updated><title type='text'>MsP Team's visit to North India</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;l&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;MsP Team's visit to North India&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ben&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dear Prayer Partners&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In answer to our prayer of more than a year, four of us of the MsP Team (George Mathew, Jacob John, Biju Samuel and John Benjamin) along with certain members of our families have had a fruitful visit to the mission fields in North India from 23 June to 5 July 2009.  God has intervened, first of all, by having enabled the four of us to get annual leave simultaneously sanctioned by our employers during this year which, we had thought, was not possible until two months ago. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We  travelled by train from Cochin (Kerala) to Chitharanjan (Bengal) where we were met by Santhosh Thomas and his team from the Bengal Bible Training Institute (BBTI), Jamtara.  During our 3-days of stay in Jamtara, despite the scorching heat wave, we were able to visit several villages such as Madhupur, Deogarh, Kano, Banke, Rajbandh and Dunga and met many evangelists along with the believers. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;From Jamtara two jeeps were arranged for our onward travel by road.  Apart from the nine of us from Kerala, there were five others including Santhosh Thomas (BBTI), two Bible School students (Dumbola and Ranjit) and two jeep drivers joined the Team.  Jeby K. Simon (Evangelist from Katihar in Bihar) joined the team later on the way at Malda in West Bengal.  The journey to Chamurchi (via. Siliguri) was hazardous and tiresome which took almost 20 hours of driving from Jamtara.  Chamurchi and Jaigaon are located at the Northern tip of India bordering the Himalayan country of Bhutan.  From Jaigaon, we travelled to Darjeeling, Samukhtala, Kooch Behar, Falakata, Krishnanagar, Barasat and Kolkata.  We were able to visit during this trip, 34 evangelists (at their mission fields), a majority of whom were natives (belonging to the locality).  Meetings were also arranged in many villages where we also met hundreds of believers.  On our return, we also had the opportunity of meeting C.P. Mathew, one of our pioneer missionaries in the State of Orissa, briefly at Bhubaneswar Railway Station.  God willing, we will be sharing with our Prayer Partners detailed report of our visit to each mission field in the coming weeks. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The visit was an eye-opener for us inasmuch as we were able to see a great need for the North Indian work.  “The harvest truly is plentiful, but the laborers are few. Therefore pray the Lord of the harvest to send out laborers into His harvest.” [Mathew 9:37,38].  This need can only be met by "burdened" brethren along with suitably equipped native evangelists raised from the respective areas. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We request all God's people to pray for the people of North India and for God to raise resources and suitable men to carry out this great task.  We also take this opportunity to thank each one of you for your prayer and support for the native missionaries in North India. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;With warm Christian regards&lt;br /&gt;for the MsP Team&lt;br /&gt;Ben&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[In case you are interested to more about the visit, please email me at &lt;a href="mailto:ben@bengrace.net"&gt;ben@bengrace.net&lt;/a&gt;]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;l&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/12770644-5463153800585242747?l=www.bennsblog.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/feeds/5463153800585242747/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=12770644&amp;postID=5463153800585242747' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/5463153800585242747'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/5463153800585242747'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/2009/07/msp-teams-visit-to-north-india.html' title='MsP Team&apos;s visit to North India'/><author><name>Benn [the-Saved-by] Grace</name><email>ben@bennsblog.org</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15194148734585317902'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12770644.post-1425296494554729226</id><published>2009-05-11T00:59:00.003+05:30</published><updated>2009-05-11T01:07:34.456+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Need video clips for your ministry presentations?</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;l &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Are you looking for short video clips for your ministry or presentatins? &lt;a href="http://www.wingclips.com/"&gt;http://www.wingclips.com/&lt;/a&gt; is a very good place to look around for free video clips. I was able to download a number of such video clips from this site.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Happy downloading!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Benn&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/12770644-1425296494554729226?l=www.bennsblog.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.wingclips.com' title='Need video clips for your ministry presentations?'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/feeds/1425296494554729226/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=12770644&amp;postID=1425296494554729226' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/1425296494554729226'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/1425296494554729226'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/2009/05/need-video-clips-for-your-ministry.html' title='Need video clips for your ministry presentations?'/><author><name>Benn [the-Saved-by] Grace</name><email>ben@bennsblog.org</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15194148734585317902'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12770644.post-7726368426480022784</id><published>2009-05-06T02:12:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2009-05-06T02:15:36.486+05:30</updated><title type='text'>If you know the Lord, you can experience peace today.</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;l&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For to us a child is born, to us a son is given; and the government shall be upon his shoulder, and his name shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. --Isaiah 9:6&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you know the Lord, you can experience peace today.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;No matter what you may be dealing with--whether it's a stressful family situation, work issues, or poor health--you can find what the Bible calls "the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding..."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Jesus is the source of peace, in fact, He is called the Prince of Peace! You need to run to Him in your time of crisis. Then you will find the peace you desperately need. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In John 14:27, Jesus said, "Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid."&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;You have a choice in times of trouble to try to carry your burden alone, or to run to the Prince of Peace and allow Him to help you. And today, I want to encourage you to run to Jesus to let Him help you... no matter what you're doing through!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;IN TIMES OF ANXIETY OR TROUBLE,YOU CAN FIND SUPERNATURAL PEACE IN JESUS CHRIST.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;---&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;Courtesy: Jack Graham&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/12770644-7726368426480022784?l=www.bennsblog.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/feeds/7726368426480022784/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=12770644&amp;postID=7726368426480022784' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/7726368426480022784'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/7726368426480022784'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/2009/05/if-you-know-lord-you-can-experience.html' title='If you know the Lord, you can experience peace today.'/><author><name>Benn [the-Saved-by] Grace</name><email>ben@bennsblog.org</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15194148734585317902'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12770644.post-5088138869766057933</id><published>2009-03-15T02:32:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2009-03-15T02:33:20.060+05:30</updated><title type='text'>"Behold My servant, whom I uphold."  (Isaiah 42:1)</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;l&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In a world rife with sound bytes and instant images, we need to teach ourselves to behold, to meditate, to appreciate.  The wonders of our Saviour are not discerned in a moment, nor appreciated with a glance.  Worship of God does not pour out of a packet marked "just add water."  Worship is a precious gift - made valuable by the time invested in its creation.  Worship bathes the object of its focus in absolute love and appreciation.  Motivation must be strong to engender such emotion.  Does he motivate us so?  He can, if we take the time to behold and meditate on Him.  The Father holds Him up to us and commands us to behold.  Do we?  &lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;(S. McEachern)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/12770644-5088138869766057933?l=www.bennsblog.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/feeds/5088138869766057933/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=12770644&amp;postID=5088138869766057933' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/5088138869766057933'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/5088138869766057933'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/2009/03/behold-my-servant-whom-i-uphold-isaiah.html' title='&quot;Behold My servant, whom I uphold.&quot;  (Isaiah 42:1)'/><author><name>Benn [the-Saved-by] Grace</name><email>ben@bennsblog.org</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15194148734585317902'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12770644.post-5362680495498651599</id><published>2009-02-18T01:58:00.003+05:30</published><updated>2009-02-18T02:11:23.533+05:30</updated><title type='text'>An Interview with Rick Warren (author of "Purpose driven Life")</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;l&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You will enjoy the new insights that Rick Warren has, with his wife now having cancer and him having 'wealth' from the book sales. This is an absolutely incredible short interview with Rick Warren, 'Purpose Driven Life ' author and pastor of SaddlebackChurch in  California&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the interview by Paul Bradshaw with Rick Warren, Rick said:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;People ask me, What is the purpose of life?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And I respond: In a nutshell, life is preparation for eternity. We were not made to last forever, and God wants us to be with Him in Heaven.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One day my heart is going to stop, and that will be the end of my body-- but not the end of me.&lt;br /&gt;I may live 60 to 100 years on earth, but I am going to spend trillions of years in eternity. This is the warm-up act - the dress rehearsal. God wants us to practice on earth what we will do forever in eternity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We were made by God and for God, and until you figure that out, life isn't going to make sense.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Life is a series of problems: Either you are in one now, you're just coming out of one, or you're getting ready to go into another one.  The reason for this is that God is more interested in your character than your comfort; God is more interested in making your life holy than He is in making your life happy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We can be reasonably happy here on earth, but that's not the goal of life. The goal is to grow in character, in Christ likeness.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This past year has been the greatest year of my life but also the toughest, with my wife, Kay, getting cancer.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I used to think that life was hills and valleys - you go through a dark time, then you go to the mountaintop, back and forth. I don't believe that anymore.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Rather than life being hills and valleys, I believe that it's kind of like two rails on a railroad track, and at all times you have something good and something bad in your life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;No matter how good things are in your life, there is always something bad that needs to be worked on.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And no matter how bad things are in your life, there is always something good you can thank God for.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You can focus on your purposes, or you can focus on your problems:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you focus on your problems, you're going into self-centeredness, which is my problem, my issues, my pain.'  But one of the easiest ways to get rid of pain is to get your focus off yourself and onto God and others.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We discovered quickly that in spite of the prayers of hundreds of thousands of people, God was not going to heal Kay or make it easy for her- It has been very difficult for her, and yet God has strengthened her character, given her a ministry of helping other people, given her a testimony, drawn her closer to Him and to people...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You have to learn to deal with both the good and the bad of life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Actually, sometimes learning to deal with the good is harder. For instance, this past year, all of a sudden, when the book sold 15 million copies, it made me instantly very wealthy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It also brought a lot of notoriety that I had never had to deal with before. I don't think God gives you money or notoriety for your own ego or for you to live a life of ease.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So I began to ask God what He wanted me to do with this money, notoriety and influence. He gave me two different passages that helped me decide what to do, II Corinthians 9 and Psalm 72.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;First,&lt;/strong&gt; in spite of all the money coming in, we would not change our lifestyle one bit.. We made no major purchases.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Second&lt;/strong&gt;, about midway through last year, I stopped taking a salary from the church.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Third,&lt;/strong&gt; we set up foundations to fund an initiative we call The Peace Plan to plant churches, equip leaders, assist the poor, care for the sick, and educate the next generation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Fourth,&lt;/strong&gt; I added up all that the church had paid me in the 24 years since I started the church, and I gave it all back. It was liberating to be able to serve God for free.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We need to ask ourselves: Am I going to live for possessions? Popularity?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Am I going to be driven by pressures? Guilt? Bitterness? Materialism? Or am I going to be driven by God's purposes (for my life)?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When I get up in the morning, I sit on the side of my bed and say, God, if I don't get anything else done today, I want to know You more and love You better. God didn't put me on earth just to fulfill a to-do list. He's more interested in what I am than what I do.&lt;br /&gt;That's why we're called human beings, not human doings.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Happy moments, PRAISE GOD.&lt;br /&gt;Difficult moments, SEEK GOD.&lt;br /&gt;Quiet moments, WORSHIP GOD.&lt;br /&gt;Painful moments, TRUST GOD.&lt;br /&gt;Every moment, THANK GOD.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;l&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/12770644-5362680495498651599?l=www.bennsblog.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/feeds/5362680495498651599/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=12770644&amp;postID=5362680495498651599' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/5362680495498651599'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/5362680495498651599'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/2009/02/interview-with-rick-warren-author-of.html' title='An Interview with Rick Warren (author of &quot;Purpose driven Life&quot;)'/><author><name>Benn [the-Saved-by] Grace</name><email>ben@bennsblog.org</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15194148734585317902'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12770644.post-4971834679479943595</id><published>2009-01-28T02:07:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2009-01-28T02:08:02.998+05:30</updated><title type='text'>"Going to do"</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;l&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;He that is always "going to do" a great many things, very likely ends in doing nothing. One resolution put into practice is worth any amount of good intentions. The commendation in Matthew 25:21 does not run, "Well intended", or "well planned", but "well done, good and faithful servant".&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Satan’s kingdom will never be much shaken by the mere drawing of plans as to what we are "going to do". If the path is clear - if the light of God is shining on our way - then "whatsoever thy hand findeth to do, do it with all thy might" (Ecc.9:10). While others may be planning, and perhaps dreaming, let us be doing. There can be no objection to planning for our work, and considering well what we are about to do for God. But let us attend to present duty. Let the work of the Lord for this day be done. Let us lay hold of the passing opportunity and utilise it for God.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Being thus faithful in that which is little, our God may commit to us that which is great. Being diligent stewards in the few things, the Master may make us "ruler over many things".&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;---&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;- Abridged. "Believers Treasury"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/12770644-4971834679479943595?l=www.bennsblog.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/feeds/4971834679479943595/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=12770644&amp;postID=4971834679479943595' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/4971834679479943595'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/4971834679479943595'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/2009/01/going-to-do.html' title='&quot;Going to do&quot;'/><author><name>Benn [the-Saved-by] Grace</name><email>ben@bennsblog.org</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15194148734585317902'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12770644.post-2017563060745513334</id><published>2009-01-28T02:01:00.003+05:30</published><updated>2009-01-28T02:10:47.772+05:30</updated><title type='text'>The Potter's Wheel</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;l&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;The Potter's Wheel&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;By R.S.B. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;l&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;A vessel unto honour, sanctified, and&lt;br /&gt;meet for the Master’s use.&lt;/em&gt; 2Timothy 2:21.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;l&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;l&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;He shapeth at the potter’s wheel &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;The vessel He hath planned,&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;Our little mould of human clay&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;Is in His mighty hand:&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We dare not tell Him what to do,&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;Nor should we doubt His skill,&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;But wholly yield ourselves to Him&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;To work his perfect will.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He riseth from the potter’s wheel,&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;His workmanship complete,&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;And lifteth in His skilful hands&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;The vessel, trim and neat:&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;With admiration and delight&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;He setteth it aside,&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;Meet only for the Master’s use,&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;In honour to abide.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;‘Tis thus that God doth work in us&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;That perfect work begun,&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;And will perform it till we bear&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;The likeness of His Son:&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When in the glory of His house&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;Each vessel will display&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;The wonders of His matchless grace&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;For ever and for aye.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;l&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/12770644-2017563060745513334?l=www.bennsblog.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/feeds/2017563060745513334/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=12770644&amp;postID=2017563060745513334' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/2017563060745513334'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/2017563060745513334'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/2009/01/potters-wheel.html' title='The Potter&apos;s Wheel'/><author><name>Benn [the-Saved-by] Grace</name><email>ben@bennsblog.org</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15194148734585317902'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12770644.post-6700916193569487179</id><published>2009-01-28T02:00:00.002+05:30</published><updated>2009-01-28T02:05:38.724+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Little Things</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;l&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The saddest failures in Christian consistency may often be traced back to what seemed to be a very small issue. There are things that we call "little sins", but the phrase is misleading.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sin is sin whether men call it great or small. The so-called "little" ones are often the most mischievous because they can be easily left to do their evil work unchecked. They are, in fact, the "little foxes that spoil the vines" (S. of S.2:15). If the "little foxes" are to be cast out of the vineyard, we must take heed to the thoughts, the tongue and the hands. The heart must be cleansed and kept by the Lord.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We must be specially watchful against the beginnings of evil. - Selected.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/12770644-6700916193569487179?l=www.bennsblog.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/feeds/6700916193569487179/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=12770644&amp;postID=6700916193569487179' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/6700916193569487179'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/6700916193569487179'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/2009/01/little-things.html' title='Little Things'/><author><name>Benn [the-Saved-by] Grace</name><email>ben@bennsblog.org</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15194148734585317902'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12770644.post-99215105338710459</id><published>2009-01-27T01:59:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2009-01-27T02:00:57.376+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Saved today, and lost tomorrow? (Part 4)</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;l&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By Charles E. Wigg&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;They hear His voice:&lt;/strong&gt;  When the Gospel is preached, most react either violently or with scoffing or with cold indifference.  If it is preached in the open air, they would shout obscenities or interject in some way.  Why do they do this?  It is because they know that what is being said is true, and it troubles their conscience.  Yet, they will not listen to the voice of the Good Shepherd.  There is a very great attempt to get rid of anything that would remotely remind any of the voice of the Good Shepherd from the parliaments of (the so-called) ‘Christian Nations’.  The excuse offered is that Church and State must be kept separate. But sometimes, even when the voice of the Good Shepherd is heard; there are those that do respond. They hear His voice.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This makes it abundantly clear, that to become one of Christ’s Sheep, a personal response is required. There are many who rely on the fact that their father, or their grandfather were ‘Christians’, so they must be ‘Christians’ as well.  But we know those that are genuine “Christians”, are so because they hear, and respond to the voice of the Good Shepherd.  When once a person hears the voice of the Good Shepherd calling them to repentance, to turn away from sin, and to turn to Him, they become eager to hear that voice continually.  It is normal for such to read the Bible each day, and through that they hear the voice of the Good Shepherd, speaking to them, teaching them, calling them to Himself, and calling them away from things that would be harmful for them. It is normal for such “Sheep”, to be found with His flock, and sheltered and protected in His fold. Once He calls them by name, and they respond, He does not leave them to wander alone, or to get lost.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;They follow Him:&lt;/strong&gt; Once a person realizes that they are truly one of His “Sheep”, their strongest desire is to “Follow Him”. They desire to keep near to Him who is their “Good Shepherd’. They realize that to be near to Him, is a place of safety, because as they walk close to Him, they will be kept from eating things that would be poisonous to them. They also find pleasure in the company of other members of His Flock. That means that they will attend meetings where the presence of the Good Shepherd is known.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have heard many people object to the doctrine of the eternal security of the believer by saying. “If once saved, I am always saved, then I can do as I like, it does not matter what I do, I can’t be lost”. My answer to such people is this. That once a person is truly saved they no longer desire to do “What they like”, (meaning that such can practice sin, and ‘get away with it’). Christ’s “Sheep”, have a great longing to please the Shepherd who has laid down His life for them. This is their consuming desire, and the fact that they follow Him, is a proof that they are indeed one of His “Sheep”.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;l&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/12770644-99215105338710459?l=www.bennsblog.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/feeds/99215105338710459/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=12770644&amp;postID=99215105338710459' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/99215105338710459'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/99215105338710459'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/2009/01/saved-today-and-lost-tomorrow-part-4.html' title='Saved today, and lost tomorrow? (Part 4)'/><author><name>Benn [the-Saved-by] Grace</name><email>ben@bennsblog.org</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15194148734585317902'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12770644.post-6611169649340084745</id><published>2009-01-25T16:47:00.001+05:30</published><updated>2009-01-25T16:49:53.530+05:30</updated><title type='text'>The word "Evangelist" and the Scriptures</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;l&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The word  evangelist is used only three times in Scripture. Therefore, relatively little can be concluded about this person’s role. Philip, who planted churches, is called an evangelist (Acts 21:8), and Timothy was instructed to do the work of an evangelist (2 Tim. 4:5). Some have the gift of evangelism and are given to the church (v. 11).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The root meaning of  evangelist is “to bring good tidings” or “to bring the gospel message.” Illustration: In the New Testament, the evangelist appears to have gone to unbelieving people, attempting to win them to Christ. Some people view the evangelist as a particularly effective soul-winner. Application: Soul-winning is the responsibility of all Christians regardless of their spiritual gifts, offices, or ministries (First Reference, Acts 21:8; Primary Reference, Eph. 4:11; cf. Eph. 2:20.)&lt;br /&gt;----&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;[Courtesy: Nelson Electronic Library]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/12770644-6611169649340084745?l=www.bennsblog.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/feeds/6611169649340084745/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=12770644&amp;postID=6611169649340084745' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/6611169649340084745'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/6611169649340084745'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/2009/01/word-evangelist-and-scriptures.html' title='The word &quot;Evangelist&quot; and the Scriptures'/><author><name>Benn [the-Saved-by] Grace</name><email>ben@bennsblog.org</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15194148734585317902'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12770644.post-172693309424378645</id><published>2009-01-22T01:36:00.002+05:30</published><updated>2009-01-22T01:51:15.933+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Barak Hussein Obama as the President of the US</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;l&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;With Barak Hussein Obama having taken oath to the office of the President of the oldest and the most powerful democracy, the United States of America, we see the fulfillment of the dream of one of its great civil rights advocates, Martin Luther King Jr.,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;I have a dream…&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;“I have a dream that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: ‘We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal.’&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;I have a dream that one day on the red hills of Georgia, the sons of former slaves and the sons of former slave owners will be able to sit down together at the table of brotherhood.I have a dream that one day even the state of Mississippi, a state sweltering with the heat of injustice, sweltering with the heat of oppression, will be transformed into an oasis of freedom and justice.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;I have a dream today!&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here is something I was able to glean from an Afro-American who narrates the kind of life and struggles he had to go through that nation:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;“I am a 69 years old African/Native American raised in Mississippi, a product of segregation. I thank God for my mother who taught me to love everybody. Her job was washing and ironing for “white” people, who delivered their clothes to the house and they were nice people. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;I remember when Emmet Till was killed and when Dr. King began the campaign for justice, at the time I was 16. It changed the course of my life, you see I had planned to go to Meharry Medical School, in Nashville, but my mother knew I’d be a part of this campaign for justice and being so young and away from home, she feared for my life. So I was sent “up north” to stay with my aunt. I said all this to say, my mom was right, because when Dr. King came to Detroit, I marched with him and I was also in Washington DC when he made this speech. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;My friend and I shed tears on Monday the 19th remembering because she lived in Memphis and was there when Dr. King was killed. The Dream is fulfilling, as I watch TV and see blacks and whites and children enjoying each others’ company on the Mall in Washington waiting for the Inauguration of President Elect Obama who is a man that has shown remarkable character, the words of the song come to mind, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“We shall overcome;&lt;br /&gt;We will walk hand in hand;&lt;br /&gt;We shall live in peace;&lt;br /&gt;We are not afraid,&lt;br /&gt;God will see us through,&lt;br /&gt;Oh deep in my heart,&lt;br /&gt;I do believe, we shall overcome some day–Someday is TODAY!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;God bless us one and all for we are Americans.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;The above gives us a picture of the kind of racial prejudices prevalent in the USA until a few years ago. President Obama has ascended to the Presidency overcoming such discriminations and prejudices. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I wish and pray that President Obama, as the first Afro-American President, would be able to walk the talk and re-write the history of that nation and that the US would continue to be a strong nation that stnad for the values its founding fathers once cherished.  God bless us. [Ben]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;l &lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/12770644-172693309424378645?l=www.bennsblog.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/feeds/172693309424378645/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=12770644&amp;postID=172693309424378645' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/172693309424378645'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/172693309424378645'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/2009/01/barak-hussein-obama-as-president-of-us.html' title='Barak Hussein Obama as the President of the US'/><author><name>Benn [the-Saved-by] Grace</name><email>ben@bennsblog.org</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15194148734585317902'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12770644.post-6018998224923983048</id><published>2009-01-18T15:54:00.001+05:30</published><updated>2009-01-18T16:10:42.845+05:30</updated><title type='text'>"Mom, where did I come from ?"</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;l&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A little boy had to write a report for school.  So, he went to his mother and asked, "Mom, where did I come from ?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Surprised at hearing such a question from her child, the mother discreetly answered, "Um, the stork brought you."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"And where did YOU come from ?" the boy continued.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Well, the stork brought me, just like he brought you. Now go to your room, no more questions please."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But the boy persisted. "What about grandma ? Where did grandma come from?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Look, the stork brought grandma, the stork brought me, the stork brought you ! Now, go to your room. I don't want to talk about this any more!"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, the little boy went to his room and began writing his report: &lt;strong&gt;"Our family hasn't had a normal birth in three generations..."&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Where to take it from here...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Do you ever wonder how you got here ? The world sometimes gives you answers that are about as stupid as "the stork brought you". Don't believe it. You did not get here by accident. You are not just a highly developed monkey. The Bible tells that you were "fearfully and wonderfully made" (Psalms 139:14).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Reducing the mysteries of the universe to something that we can measure is like parents telling small children all tales, so they will stop asking questions. Don't let all tales invented in the name of science rob you of your faith. No one knows exactly how God did it, but we know that God created everything, including you and me - and He knows each of us by name. Not only that, He loves and desires a personal relationship with each person He has created. He wants to have a personal relationship with You.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thank you for your valuable time.  May God bless you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;---&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;(c) Wayne Rice&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/12770644-6018998224923983048?l=www.bennsblog.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/feeds/6018998224923983048/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=12770644&amp;postID=6018998224923983048' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/6018998224923983048'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/6018998224923983048'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/2009/01/mom-where-did-i-come-from.html' title='&quot;Mom, where did I come from ?&quot;'/><author><name>Benn [the-Saved-by] Grace</name><email>ben@bennsblog.org</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15194148734585317902'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12770644.post-1050115121426094648</id><published>2009-01-14T01:23:00.002+05:30</published><updated>2009-01-14T01:26:09.839+05:30</updated><title type='text'>A Quality Christian</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;l&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Jesus talks of hypocrisy right from His message from the mount in Mathew Ch. 5.  Hypocrisy shows up in every realm of life. The hardest part to spot one is not in others, but in oneself.  One way to find the percentage of adulteration of hypocrisy in our lives is to study and examine it based on spiritual principles and instructions given by Jesus in Mathew 5,6 and 7.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In Matthew Ch.6, Jesus is telling of three areas where we are tempted to do things that are many times for self-glory rather than His. Jesus gives a warning (Mathew 6:1), before he tells of giving, prayer and fasting. The word “take heed” means the motives behind what is done. We may outwardly do well towards others and even be a help to others but the thing that drives us may be wicked and sinful. God has higher standards for us, who are the citizen of heaven.&lt;br /&gt;Jesus gives a warning about charitable deeds that are done for self-praise; to impress others and ourselves, and think that we are adding merit to our deeds. The greatest hindrance in right motives is the desire to please ourselves rather than the Lord. Selfishness can lead to do great exploits in the name of Christ when we really do so for ourselves. It can show up by going to the mission field and receiving the accolades of men for such sacrifice, when the real reason is to make a name for one's self. It may be being busy in the things of God, to have a good name in church. It might be giving great amounts of money, to get noticed in public.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We must strive not to get the praise of men, rather grow in maturity in likeness of our Master Jesus Christ.  If we are looking for applause from men, we will receive nothing from the Lord.&lt;br /&gt;Let us remove all acts of self-glory and give God the glory due to His name.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dear Lord, Please forgive our desire to get recognition and appreciation from men.  Amen&lt;br /&gt;---&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;Discipleship Training -Courtesy: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://wallbuilders4christ.wordpress.com/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;http://wallbuilders4christ.wordpress.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/12770644-1050115121426094648?l=www.bennsblog.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/feeds/1050115121426094648/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=12770644&amp;postID=1050115121426094648' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/1050115121426094648'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/1050115121426094648'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/2009/01/quality-christian.html' title='A Quality Christian'/><author><name>Benn [the-Saved-by] Grace</name><email>ben@bennsblog.org</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15194148734585317902'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12770644.post-5600488893020031456</id><published>2009-01-09T15:02:00.002+05:30</published><updated>2009-01-09T15:13:46.287+05:30</updated><title type='text'>"God to give up His Son for me"</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt; l&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;color:#ff0000;"&gt;The following story is an ideal illustration while delivering a message on John 3:16.  "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life."  God gave His only begotten Son is what it matters.  With this background, let us look at the story:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After a few of the usual Sunday evening hymns, the church's pastor slowly stood up, walked over to the pulpit and, before he gave his sermon for the evening, briefly introduced a guest minister who was in the service that evening.  In the introduction, the pastor told the congregation that the guest minister was one of his dearest childhood friends and that he wanted him to have a few moments to greet the church and share whatever he felt would be appropriate for the service.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;With that, an elderly man stepped up to the pulpit and began to speak.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"A father, his son, and a friend of his son were sailing off the pacific coast," he began, "when a fast approaching storm blocked any attempt to get back to the shore.  The waves were so high, that even though the father was an experienced sailor, he could not keep the boat upright and the three were swept into the ocean as the boat capsized."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The old man hesitated for a moment, making eye contact with two teenagers who were, for the first time since the service began, looking somewhat interested in his story. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The aged minister continued with his story, "grabbing a rescue line, the father had to make the most excruciating decision of his life:  to which boy he would throw the other end of the life line.  He only had seconds to make the decision.  The father knew that his son was a Christian and he also knew that his son's friend was not. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The agony of his decision could not be matched by the torrent of waves. "as the father yelled out, "I love you, son!"  he threw out the life line to his son's friend.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By the time the father had pulled the friend back to the capsized boat, his son had disappeared beneath the raging swells into the black of night. His body was never recovered."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By this time, the two teenagers were sitting up straight in the pew, anxiously waiting for the next words to come out of the old minister's mouth. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"The father," he continued, "knew his son would step into eternity with Jesus and he could not bear the thought of his son's friend stepping into an eternity without Jesus.  Therefore, he sacrificed his son to save the son's friend. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How great is the love of God that he should do the same for us.  Our heavenly father sacrificed His only begotten son that we could be saved. I urge you to accept His offer to rescue you and take a hold of the life line he is throwing out to you in this service."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;With that, the old man turned and sat back down in his chair as silence filled the room. The pastor again walked slowly to the pulpit and delivered a brief sermon with an invitation at the end.  However, no one responded to the appeal.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Within minutes after the service ended, the two teenagers were at the old man's side.  "That was a nice story," politely stated one of the boys, "but I don't think it was very realistic for a father to give up his only son's life in hopes that the other boy would become a Christian." &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Well, you've got a point there," the old man replied, glancing down at his worn Bible.  A big smile broadened his narrow face, he once again looked up at the boys and said, "it sure isn't very realistic, is it?  But I’m standing here today to tell you that story gives me a glimpse of what it must have been like for God to give up his Son for me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You see --- &lt;strong&gt;I was that father and your pastor is my son's friend."&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;---&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;(Author unknown)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/12770644-5600488893020031456?l=www.bennsblog.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/feeds/5600488893020031456/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=12770644&amp;postID=5600488893020031456' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/5600488893020031456'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/5600488893020031456'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/2009/01/god-to-give-up-his-son-for-me.html' title='&quot;God to give up His Son for me&quot;'/><author><name>Benn [the-Saved-by] Grace</name><email>ben@bennsblog.org</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15194148734585317902'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12770644.post-4524492502231721896</id><published>2009-01-09T00:01:00.001+05:30</published><updated>2009-01-09T00:05:07.319+05:30</updated><title type='text'>"What was your favorite ....when you were growing up?"</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;l&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Hey Dad," one of my kids asked the other day, "What was your favorite fast food when you were growing up?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"We didn't have fast food when I was growing up," I informed him. "All the food was slow."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"C'mon, seriously. Where did you eat?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"It was a place called 'at home,'" I explained.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Grandma cooked every day and when Grandpa got home from work, we sat down together at the dining room table, and if I didn't like what she put on my plate I was allowed to sit there until I did like it."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By this time, the kid was laughing so hard I was afraid he was going to suffer serious internal damage, so I didn't tell him the part about how I had to have permission to leave the table. But here are some other things I would have told him about my childhood if I figured his system could have handled it:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Some parents NEVER owned their own house, wore Levis, set foot on a golf course, traveled out of the country or had a credit card. In their later years they had something called a revolving charge card. The card was good only at Sears AND Roebuck.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My parents never drove me to soccer practice. This was mostly because we never had heard of soccer. I had a bicycle that weighed probably 50 pounds, and only had one speed, (slow). We didn't have a television in our house until I was 11, but my grandparents had one before that. It was, of course, black and white, but they bought a piece of colored plastic to cover the screen. The top third was blue, like the sky, and the bottom third was green, like grass. The middle third was red. It was perfect for programs that had scenes of fire trucks riding across someone's lawn on a sunny day. Some people had a lens taped to the front of the TV to make the picture look larger.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I was 13 before I tasted my first pizza, it was called "pizza pie." When I bit into it, I burned the roof of my mouth and the cheese slid off, swung down, plastered itself against my chin and burned that, too. It's still the best pizza I ever had.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We didn't have a car until I was 15. Before that, the only car in our family was my grandfather's Ford. He called it a "machine."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I never had a telephone in my room. The only phone in the house was in the living room and it was on a party line. Before you could dial, you had to listen and make sure some people you didn't know weren't already using the line.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Pizzas were not delivered to our home. But milk was.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;All newspapers were delivered by boys and all boys delivered newspapers. I delivered a newspaper, six days a week. It cost 7 cents a paper, of which I got to keep 2 cents.... I had to get up at 4 AM every morning. On Saturday, I had to collect the 42 cents from my customers. My favorite customers were the ones who gave me 50 cents and told me to keep the change. My least favorite customers were the ones who seemed to never be home on collection day.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Movie stars kissed with their mouths shut. At least, they did in the movies. Touching someone else's tongue with yours was called French kissing and they didn't do that in movies. I don't know what they did in French movies. French movies were dirty and we weren't allowed to see them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you grew up in a generation before there was fast food, you may want to share some of these memories with your children or grandchildren. Just don't blame me if they bust a gut laughing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Growing up isn't what it used to be, is it?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;---&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;Courtesy: Teddy's Humor [Aloha]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/12770644-4524492502231721896?l=www.bennsblog.org' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/feeds/4524492502231721896/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=12770644&amp;postID=4524492502231721896' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/4524492502231721896'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/12770644/posts/default/4524492502231721896'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.bennsblog.org/2009/01/what-was-your-favorite-when-you-were.html' title='&quot;What was your favorite ....when you were growing up?&quot;'/><author><name>Benn [the-Saved-by] Grace</name><email>ben@bennsblog.org</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15194148734585317902'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>